The Art Of Listening
The way we are meant to communicate as human beings is by remaining internally empty of judgements, preconceived ideas, bias and resistances.
Listening is a skill which we can continually develop. So often we listen only to wait for our chance to say what it is that we want to say. Often times we think we know better than the other, or that we are somehow superior. Sometimes we think we know what the other person is talking about, and even finish their sentences for them. Such attitudes block real communication and relations.
Here is a talk given by Lujan Matus in which he details how we are naturally meant to communicate, and how we have unconsciously drifted far away from our natural state of being. Please take a listen, this talk is pure gold.
Interview with Lujan Matus - Masters of the Matrix with Greg Em: