Sacred Marriage

Cupid's Poisoned Arrow book      The Perfect Matrimony
Cupid’s Poisoned Arrow skewers a primitive part of the brain. Obediently, we fall in love amid showers of passionate fireworks, bond for a time … and then often get fed up with each other and grow irritable or numb. Perhaps we try to remodel our mate, seek solace online, or pursue a new love interest. Ancient sages recognized this biological snare and hinted at a way to dodge it: use lovemaking to balance one another and harmony arises naturally.
The Perfect Matrimony is a complete introduction to the profound and beautiful mystical knowledge from which all the world’s great religions have blossomed. This is the source of the sacred teachings of Judaism, Christianity, Buddhism,  Alchemy, Tantra, Kabbalah, and the mysteries of the Mayans, Aztecs, Egyptians, Tibetans, Eleusians, Essenes, and hundreds more.
Everything that lives was created through sex. Just the same, the soul is created through sex, but not the sex of the common person. To create divinity, one must understand divine sexuality.
Sex is very close to soul. Whoso touches sex touches the secrets and centers of life. Rather than squandering this creative energy through orgasm, or the "animal spasm," one can raise one's levels of consciousness and connection through using lovemaking; focusing on generous pampering rather than self-stimulation, thereby creating a nourishing cocoon of comfort and safety. 
"Sex without orgasms sounds crazy; that's what I thought when I first heard about it. But I can honestly say that my wife and I both enjoy sex with each other 10 times more now, and at the same time, it's much more connected and loving."- R. Lewis